EFT Resources

ICEEFT

International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy

This is the website for all EFT practitioners world wide. See www.iceeft.com.

It provides the following information:

  • Information about membership, events and training
  • Requirements for Certification
  • Lists of all the trainers and supervisors, and EFT centres, communities and practitioners by location around the world (looking at some of those EFT community websites can be a source of ideas and resources)
  • Purchase books and DVDs with your members’ discount
  • EFT-based publications, articles, research and other authors (not Sue Johnson)
Dr. Sue Johnson

Dr. Sue Johnson

Sue formulated this approach to couple therapy along with Les Greenberg in the 80’s. Since then Sue has been key and instrumental in the ongoing research, development and promotion of EFT.

Although Sue passed away in 2024, her work and legacy remain an integral and active part in all EFT Centres and Communities around the globe.

Some interesting information from Sue can be found in the following internet sites:

Sue has written a number of books. To find out more about each of them, click on the image below.

  • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love (book cover)
  • Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships (book cover)
  • The Practice of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy: Creating Connection (book cover)
  • Created for Connection: The “Hold Me Tight” Guide for Christian Couples (book cover)
  • Attachment Theory in Practice: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Individuals, Couples, and Families (book cover)
  • The Love Secret: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships (book cover)

EFT-Related YouTube Clips

We have a number of excellent EFT-related videos on this site. We have them on two pages: videos for therapy and videos for therapists. We'd just like to highlight a few here we have collected for therapists.

The Still-Face experiment by Dr Edward Tronick.

This is attachment theory in action and shows a child’s reaction when the mother does not respond or interact with the child. Much research supports the view that adults react in similar ways; when we feel cut off from our loved one, we go into a kind of panic. We have lost the connection, our main source of safety and comfort.


Soothing the Threatened Brain by Sue Johnson.

Research including brain scans have become an important way of measuring effectiveness of EFT. Here Sue talks about the FMRI study showing that connection with a loved one changes how we respond to threat and pain.


Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson.

Hold Me Tight – Conversations for Connection with short DVD clip showing three couples who have completed EFT work. This supports the Conversations for Connection set of two DVD’s of Sue talking with three couples about their relationship journey with EFT.


The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown.

Brene is a well renowned researcher into human connection, love and belonging. She talks about and shares her own experience of shame and vulnerability.

This clip of Brene sharing her vulnerability has had over 13 million views and is well worth taking the time to watch.

Love is the best survival mechanism there is.

DVD and Books

Books and DVD’s are available to ICEEFT members at a 15% discount. Here's a few items we'd like to highlight:

Articles

We have a number of written pieces on EFT on our Articles page.